I help sensitive people connect to their emotions, power, truth and sex.

Speak your Truth. Be Authentic

Liberating Sensitive Intellectuals since 2018

Find Freedom in Authenticity

My name is Ruben, and I am a holistic men’s coach and Jungian analytical therapist.

It strikes me that so many people feel so… stuck. Afraid to say what they really feel or want, and unable to set a much-needed boundary or taking decisive action.

And, I know it’s scary to say or simply embody what’s really moving inside you.

It took me many years of personal development, mentorship and therapy to stop caring what others think about me and just say what I think. I had to learn about something that’s known as ‘self-parenting’. And, beyond finding the courage to ‘be real’, you might just want to listen to your ‘soul’ more. What James Hillman calls the ‘Soul’s Code’, is like a calling you hear, like the feeling that things just want to move ‘through’ you.

And, I want you to experience the fullness of who you are and to live a fulfilled life. I want you to be able to say what you think and want. And to go for what you want. For whom you want.

Through a step-by-step process that will be unique to you, I can help you overcome fear and anxiety through the confrontation with your past and the resulting self-sabotaging beliefs. A big part of my work is: trauma work, inner child work, visualisation, dream analysis and working with fairy tales, mythology and/or movie symbolism.

Through the use of trance and the Jungian visionary technique called ‘active imagination’, you will explore your unconscious in a very tangible way, and you will be able to gradually make lasting changes to your beliefs and behaviour.

Since I have personal experience with long-covid recovery, burnout and depression, I may be able to help you overcome these things yourself, by giving you insights, tips and tools that helped me get back to functioning health.

Want to speak to me in person? Book a no-strings attached call with me using the button below.

My Story

From Lost Fly-Boy to Man

“Growing up without a father, I had no idea what it meant to be a man - and I felt ashamed of my masculinity. I felt incompetent, and I cultivated traits that were typically Feminine: sensitive, agreeable, emotional.

However, after years of hard work and unconditional support, I found both my heart and my power and realised that I want to give back the support I wish I had when I was younger.”

The Book that Makes Men Grow Up

The Integral Guide to Aligned Masculinity is a roadmap for young men like you. This book will help you understand the process of growth towards manhood, and give you the tools you need to live a modern life without selling your soul.

Coming 2024

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